Gather ’round and make yourself comfortable. Maybe grab that drink you’ve been craving because it’s story time. Let me take you on a journey through the ink on my skin, a story that’s more than just skin deep.
You see, tattoos, for me, are like chapters in a book, each one telling a story of a particular time, emotion, or belief. And trust me, it’s always a good idea to ink something that resonates with your soul. Take it from someone who got a ring tattooed in 2015 and ended up divorced by 2016. Yep, that happened. #LessonLearned
This is my latest piece. If you look closely, you’ll notice it’s a part of the Clarity and Crystal logo. Fun fact: Curtis, my rock, crafted this design just for me. At its core, this emblem represents a philosophy I hold dear, something I like to call the “both-and” principle.
In a world that often feels black and white, “both-and” is my rebellious streak of grey. It’s the belief that life isn’t just about either-or; it’s about embracing the chaos of both. This concept was first introduced to me during my days with Jim Fortin’s TCP.
To put it simply, “both-and” is the belief that you don’t have to limit yourself. Why choose between being a dedicated partner and an independent soul? Embrace both! Fancy running a business while lounging on a beach? Why the hell not? The wanderlust of a nomad and the comfort of a home? Embrace the contradiction.
Imagine this: Someone offers you ice cream (yum!). You’re all in until they limit you to Chocolate or Vanilla. But what if your heart sings for Mint Chocolate Chip? That’s the “both-and” spirit. It’s about having your ice cream and savoring the exact flavor you love, not just settling for the options presented.
On my left wrist, the word “Believe” is etched, a constant reminder of faith and hope. And now, on my right, stands the symbol of “Both-And”, a testament to limitless possibilities. So here’s to choices, to believing, and to living a life without boundaries. Cheers! 🥂